1. Make her something. Write
her a poem or a song, draw her a picture or a card, frame a photo —
that you took! — of the two of you together, cook her a special dinner
with all of her favorite dishes; whatever it is, if you use your hands,
she will melt.
2. Demonstrate you think about her when she’s not around. This can be demonstrated in the most minor of ways. Send her links to stories you know will interest her (especially when they’re about topics that don’tinterest you). Change your wallpaper on your mobile phone to a picture of her. Text her, ask her opinion on which shirt to wear on your future job interview.
3. Be supportive. A romantic/s*xual connection is awesome and important, but being sincerely interested in who your significant other is as an autonomous human being is essential to make a relationship last. It’s great when you constantly remid her how hot she is, but don’t forget to praise her for being smart and fascinating. Show interest in what she does, what her opinions are, and where her passions lie, be supportive of those things.
4. Clean up. Doing the dishes — so simple, so meaningful, so sexy.
5. Make important introductions. Our parents bring out the best and worst in us — wanting her to experience that dynamic in the flesh shows trust and vulnerability and that is romantic. If you’re ready to bring both of your families together, that means a lot for her, too.
6. Take care of her. See her home after a day at work. Clean her car for her. Prepare her a dinner. Lots and lots of variations!
7. Surprise your lady! Seriously, this isn’t about spending loads of money or putting hours into planning something flashy. It’s about being struck with the sudden desire to make her feel special in a way that you know would resonate with her. That is priceless. Present her with a different flower each time, or take her out in the middle of the night to watch the skyline for falling stars and make wishes.
2. Demonstrate you think about her when she’s not around. This can be demonstrated in the most minor of ways. Send her links to stories you know will interest her (especially when they’re about topics that don’tinterest you). Change your wallpaper on your mobile phone to a picture of her. Text her, ask her opinion on which shirt to wear on your future job interview.
3. Be supportive. A romantic/s*xual connection is awesome and important, but being sincerely interested in who your significant other is as an autonomous human being is essential to make a relationship last. It’s great when you constantly remid her how hot she is, but don’t forget to praise her for being smart and fascinating. Show interest in what she does, what her opinions are, and where her passions lie, be supportive of those things.
4. Clean up. Doing the dishes — so simple, so meaningful, so sexy.
5. Make important introductions. Our parents bring out the best and worst in us — wanting her to experience that dynamic in the flesh shows trust and vulnerability and that is romantic. If you’re ready to bring both of your families together, that means a lot for her, too.
6. Take care of her. See her home after a day at work. Clean her car for her. Prepare her a dinner. Lots and lots of variations!
7. Surprise your lady! Seriously, this isn’t about spending loads of money or putting hours into planning something flashy. It’s about being struck with the sudden desire to make her feel special in a way that you know would resonate with her. That is priceless. Present her with a different flower each time, or take her out in the middle of the night to watch the skyline for falling stars and make wishes.
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