You may be enjoying your freedom too much or simply be afraid of commitment.
1. Your standards are too high.
One of the most frequent reasons why some women are still single is
because they set the bar too high. It’s great to have high standards.
Under no circumstances should you settle for less than you deserve.
However, make sure your standards are realistic.
2. You’re too negative.
Are you pessimistic or do you always find something to complain
about? Such an attitude would certainly explain why you are still
single. No man is going to want a relationship with a woman who is never
pleased or who sees the world through dark-tinted glasses.
3. You’re going after the wrong guy.
It’s the old story. Many women are still single because they’re
constantly going after the wrong guy. If you find yourself constantly
drawn to the charming debonair type of man, bear in mind such men love
the thrill of the chase and will definitely not be in it for the long
haul.
4. You’re not a good listener.
Most of us don’t know how to listen. You should take in not only what
people say, but also how they say it – body language, tone, eye
contact, etc. More often than not, what is conveyed non-verbally is more
important than what is actually said.
5. You don’t take care of yourself.
Trust us, men do care about this. We’re not saying you should look
straight out of a photo shoot, but basic things like keeping fit,
wearing nice clothes and a bit of makeup do help. If your usual look is a
casual outfit and no makeup, don’t ask yourself why you’re still
single.
6. You’re hung up on an ex.
A common reason why some women are still single is the fact they
haven’t given up on an ex. Whether you’re still seeing him on and off or
still fantasize about him, being hung up on an ex is preventing you
from opening up to the promise of a new relationship.
7. You’re being judgmental and insecure.
Men do not feel at ease around women who are judgmental of other
people. Such an attitude is usually an expression of insecurity, which
is certainly not an appealing quality in either sex.
8. You don’t actually want a relationship.
Whether you admit it or not, you may actually be still single
because, deep down, that’s how you prefer it. You may be enjoying your
freedom too much or simply be afraid of commitment.
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