It’s not that he doesn’t want to hold your hand or kiss you—
he’s just mortified that anyone would think he’s whipped.
1. HE GETS SWEATY
What’s the temperature at your place right now? It’s at least 5
degrees warmer than your guy would like it to be, but he suffers in
silence.
2. HE UPGRADES YOUR ITUNES
He probably barely thinks twice about it. But if he sees a way to
improve the way your computer, phone, tablet, or anything else performs,
he’ll do it.
3. HE TAKES HEAT FROM HIS FRIENDS
Guys mercilessly make fun of each other. So basically, any time he
does anything you want to do—shops at Bed, Bath & Beyond, visits
your folks, goes out for a romantic dinner—you can bet his friends made
him pay for it later.
4. HE LETS YOU GUSH OVER GOSLING
When you talk about how hot, say, Ryan Gosling is, the caveman part
of your guy’s brain is activated and his first reaction is to want to
kill the dude. Instead, your guy probably just rolls his eyes and blows
it off.
5. HE TEXTS YOU
You probably think it’s a no-brainer to text, IM, or email with
your guy during the day when you’re both at work. But chances are, he’s
only doing this because he knows you want to. He’d be fine with catching
up that night.
6. HE HELPS WITH SET-UPS
Playing matchmaker with you is the last thing your man wants to do.
It’s awkward and if it doesn’t work out, it’s really awkward. But if he
seems supportive of you setting up his buddies with your buddies, he’s
only doing it for one reason—because he’s a nice guy.
7. HE HOLDS YOUR HAND
Guys are iffy on PDA. Sometimes they crave it and other times
(read: When his friends are around) they don’t. It’s not that he doesn’t
want to hold your hand or kiss you—he’s just mortified that anyone
would think he’s whipped.
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