Tuesday 4 June 2013

So What If He Is Younger Than You.

Hello everyone,i am going to deviate a bit from what i usually write on(music) to write very briefly about a topic that is a little bit controversial:Dating a younger guy.Well  it just so happens that as i was going to buy bread this morning i overheard two girls talking.
Girl1: i can't date him,he is too young for me
Girl2: ehen,he is too young abi? make e carry u enter bed now na broda u go dey call am,stop selecting.Life is about taking risks.
Very funny right?i know,but come to think of it,is it advisable to date a younger guy?,they say "age is nothing but a number" i agree to a certain extent but lets weigh the issue.Our society is yet to come to accept the fact that age shouldn't really be a factor to starting a relationship,in the western world they think nothing of it but here haaa! make u carry boy wey u senior come house,mama and papa go call u go one corner ask u question.
If the relationship eventually leads to marriage,there is also the fear that he might leave you for someone younger,and we all know that a woman's sex drive declines faster than a man's own.What if that happens?i can't imagine the hurt the woman would be going through whe she finds out he is going after younger girls,i know people will say men will always cheat but in this case a lot of things would be going through her mind.
Well,if you find yourself in a situation where you are in love with a younger guy,think really hard,if its worth the risk go for it,like my mum would always say"You never know where you will find love".Love comes in places we least expect it.Till next time.NEVER GIVE UP.
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